Character Matters

Today we went to the school to attend Abbi's 3rd grade class production of "Character Matters."  They all did such a great job!  Here is a synopsis of the play:

Led by Rapunzel, a Handsome Prince, and a (recovering) Wicked Witch, the council offers help in                                    character building to famous folk creatures. In this fun show, the Big Bad Wolf learns the Golden Rule, Cinderella gets help in managing her anger at her bullying stepsisters, and Jack and the Giant discover that their differences are cool. Will Humpty Dumpty take responsibility for his fall? Can Baby Bear forgive Goldilocks (and will Goldilocks apologize, or just take the porridge and run)?

It was a lot of fun to watch and I am so proud of Abbi.  She did a great job!  But, in true Abbi fashion, she refused to get her picture taken. So, here are a few of what we were able to get.

A Day in My Life

The other night I went to bed thoroughly exhausted and thought to myself, "I have been running nonstop today but got nothing done."  Which led me to this post.  I run and run and run all day, running my staging business, running the household, running the kids everywhere they need to be, and run the back-end of the real estate business.  I am busy all day yet feel like nothing ever gets done.  I have lots of projects that are half done but nothing finished, which leaves me with the feeling of getting nothing accomplished.  So, I decided, for one full day, to write down everything I did that - no matter how mundane.  It made me realize all the little, run-of-the-mill things I do everyday.  Here is how my day went:

7:00 am:  Wake up, and roll out of bed

7:15-8:00:  Pilates workout - only 135 calories burned - Crap!  Feels like I should have burned more.

8:00-8:30:  Breakfast, check the kids' homework, sign planners, do Abbi's hair, make sure everyone's teeth are brushed, steal a quick moment to check Facebook and various blogs, and get the kids off to school.  At which time I get Alex in the tub.

8:35-9:35:  While Alex is playing in the tub, I hang a new towel bar that was needed in the bathroom because one of my children (Alex) thought the last one was a jungle gym and broke it.  I wash Alex and get him out of the tub, fold the Levi's that have been in the dryer for days, and throw in a load of towels.

9:45:  Holy crap!  My house looks like a bomb went off!

9:46-12:00:  House cleaning begins.  I empty then refill the dishwasher and get it started, I clean off various piles around the kitchen and put the piles away, I wipe down all counters and the table, I vacuum the kitchen floor, the family room, and the front room which allows me to see all the dirty marks on the floor, so, out comes the mop.  I mop the kitchen floor, the bathroom/laundry room, and all entryways to the house.  I clean Alex's room which looks like a bomb went off and throw away a bag full of garbage from his room.  I change out the laundry- put the towels in the dryer and start a new load of darks.  Whew!

12:00:  Realize my Visiting Teachers are coming any minute and I have not showered.

12:02-12:10:  Quick shower just in time to hear the door bell ring.  Alex tells them I'll be down in a minute.

12:15-1:15:  Visit with Visiting Teachers - all the while thinking, I have no makeup on.

1:15-2:00:  Finish putting on my makeup and get my hair done while watching "The Young and the Restless."  (I know, it is one of guilty pleasures - I DVR it everyday!)

2:00-2:35 - The kids get home from school.  I start to work on the wood projects again (I started them the day before) and re-schedule Abbi's piano lessons for Monday.

2:45- Remember the laundry.  Fold towels, put the darks in the dryer and start a load of levis.  (Yes, another one)

2:55 - resume work on said projects, then remember to call my mom for her birthday!  Left a message.  Called to find out if Aaron's flight time was still on.  I gave him an introductory flight lesson for his birthday.  It had to be re-scheduled.  Called Aaron with the info for him to re-schedule.

3:00:  Mom called back, talked to her while I cleaned out the popcorn machine.  Popcorn sounds good but the machine was a mess.  Popped fresh popcorn.

3:30-5:15:  Finished up the wood projects, Finally!  

5:25:  Take Adam to guitar lessons.

5:30 - Came home to clean up the mess of the wood projects.  Wipe down counters again.

5:55-6:25:  Went to pick up Adam from guitar.  He was running late, so I had to wait.  Enjoyed a moment of peace.

6:30:  Came home and met Aaron at home.  Decided to go to dinner with the boys since Abbi was camping with the neighbors.

6:35-8:45:  Dinner at Su Casa with the family and a quick trip to Sam's for fruit and salt for the water softener.

8:50:  Drop off the boys to make it to a 9:00 appointment at Massage Envy with Aaron.

9:00-10:05:  Enjoyed(?) a massage.  My masseuse was really getting into the knots on back.  It hurt, but my back was hurting so bad and I knew the knots needed to be worked out.  Feels much better now.

10:30:  Return home, check on kids in their beds, brush teeth, pull out contacts and fall into bed.  Almost into a restful sleep, when I realized the laundry hadn't been changed.... Oh well, there is always tomorrow.

So, there you have it!  A look into my life of being a stay-at-home mom.  There are still bills to be paid and checks to be deposited but that will have to wait for another day.

Here are the craft projects I was able to get done:

Aaron's Birthday and our Harley Ride

When Aaron came home and told me about an upcoming Realtor Rally Harley ride, I said "That's great! Have a nice time and I'll see you when you get back."  See, I remember riding the Harley in Kauai for 4 LONG hours in the hot sun and the burn I got on my calf.  I wasn't about to do that again on an even longer ride down to St. George.  Then he told me it was on his birthday and that he really wanted me to go.  Ugh!  How do you say "no" to that?  I tried to discourage him from taking me, tried to come up with any excuse not to go, but to no avail.  I would have to go.  My mom agreed to take the kids and we "suited up" to take the long, scenic ride to St. George.  We left the Sandy realtor campus on Wednesday at 8:00 am.  It was a little exciting just seeing all the bikes.  There were close to 40 bikes that participated so we made a huge impact as we traveled the side streets with a police escort to I-15.  We traveled I-15 to Nephi where we made our first pit stop.  I thought my thighs were going to burn up and fall off.  It didn't help that I had done a bazzilion squats and lunges the day before.  Note to self:  Next year when we do this again.... do not work out the day before.)  We jumped off the bikes for a little rest before saddled up again and made our way to Scipio and Salina for lunch.  Throughout the day, we saw some of the prettiest sights Utah has to offer.  We rode through Bryce canyon and Hell's Corridor.  Absolutely gorgeous!  We made it to St. George around 7:00 that night where we were treated to a dutch oven dinner by the Washington County Realtor Association. 

The next morning we woke up and saddled up again to make our way back home.  We drove through Zions National Park.  Nothing is cooler than 40 bikes revving engines as we drove through the tunnel at Zions.  Pretty Cool!  We made it home, again driving the back roads, around 7:00 that night.  We were exhausted!  Although I didn't want to go originally, I am so glad I went.  Seeing what we saw, experiencing what we did, and spending that time with Aaron on the back of the bike was amazing!  Happy Birthday to my biker man, from you biker babe.  I love you!

Happy Birthday Abbi!

Happy Birthday Abigail!

For your birthday this year, you had quite the list of "wants."  All I can say is that you have expensive tastes.  On the top of your list was a new iPod.  You love music and I knew you would love having an ipod.  Here you are after opening your present and finding the iPod, speakers, headphones, and an iTunes gift card.  I don't think I have seen you happier.

 For your birthday, we organized a small party with your best friends, Hailey and Riley.  We went to see "Gnomeo and Juliet" and then went to dinner at your favorite place, Chick-fil-A.  You had a great time!

And like the Marshall family fashion, your birthday week ended with dinner at the Spaghetti factory with Grandma and Grandpa Marshall, and a steak BBQ with Grandma and Grandpa McGee with cupcakes from the Sweet Tooth Fairy.  Can we say spoiled?

Abbi,

I love being your mom.  You have such a sweet and fun personality!  You are such a beautiful girl and are getting so tall.  You can always brighten my day with your caring notes left by my bedside table or your great hugs.  You have such a kind heart!  I can't wait to see what is next!

Love,
Mom

Camping at Cherry Creek with our neighbors

We literally have the BEST neighbors/friends in the entire world.  We love spending time with them whether it be a backyard BBQ, a date night at Leatherbys, or playing games at the monthly game night.  This time we spent an entire weekend with them camping at Cherry Creek.  We all had so much fun riding 4-wheelers, playing games, and eating; the weekend went by too quickly.  The only downer to the entire weekend was the rain.  However, we simply all moved in to the back of our trailer and played card games until the wee hours of the morning.  (It's amazing what you can learn about people in such a close setting, but those secrets shall remain unsaid.)  

Alex trying out the motorcycle for the first time.  He preferred the "blueberry bomb" (the small, blue 4-wheeler)

Abbi is pretty fearless.  She feels pretty confident driving a 4-wheeler, especially since she passed the 4-wheeler test and got her "license"

Adam loved zooming up and down on the motorcycle.  He has begged us several times to get him one.

Alex on the Blueberry Bomb

The Aaron's

Abbi, Riley, Saydee, and Emalee at the pond

The lovebirds

"Take me for a ride, Daddy"

Alex's Preschool Graduation

Another milestone has come and gone.  Alex is an official preschool graduate!  He has had so much fun with Ms. Cindy at preschool.  They did so many cute and fun things!  I loved seeing him come through the door from preschool with a big smile on his face.  He always had so much fun and came home with the cutest worksheets and activities.  We will miss Ms. Cindy and preschool but now we move on to the "big" school.  Next stop, Kindergarten!

Random conversations with Alex

Last Sunday as I was getting Alex ready for church, he asks, "Mom, is today fast food day?"

Last night, I was tucking Alex into bed and our conversation went like this:

       Me: "Alex, you know what I could use?"

       Alex: "What?"

       Me:  "One of your great, big hugs; you give the best hugs."

       Alex:  (Big smile) "I think them in my head and they come out my arms."

I am one lucky lady!

Well, its official, I am (ahem) 33 years old.  My birthday (week) has come and gone and I am sad to see it go.  I must say that I love my birthday!  What other day can we have that is just about us?  Right?!

Let's see, the celebrations began with a birthday lunch with friends a couple days before my birthday.  We all met at Cafe Rio and had a great lunch talking and laughing - Awesome!

Then, on my day, I heard a little knock on my door.  I opened it and found my cute little neighbor girls standing there with a chocolate zinger, a candle, and a card.  They had come to sing "Happy Birthday" to me - totally made my day.  I had to take a picture of their cuteness.  Please pardon my morning hair/makeup and jammies.

After that, it was to the mall to go shopping with my mom and sister, Ali.  I found a very cute purse and matching wallet.  Love it!  I get so many compliments on it.  Then, later that evening, it was to Park City to spend 2 nights with Aaron at a condo.  It was a great get-away.  We shopped the outlet malls, saw a movie, ate out, and shared an apple-pie flavored caramel apple from Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory.  Thanks Ali for taking our kids!

So, you'd think "Wow!" That is one great birthday celebration!  But, it wasn't over yet, because Aaron had also planned a trip, just the two of us, to Las Vegas the following weekend.  We drove down Thursday and went to several shows over the weekend.  We saw "Phantom of the Opera" at the Venetian, "Lion King" at Mandalay Bay, and even went to "The Price is Right Live" at Bally's.  We had so much fun being together and the all three shows were absolutely amazing!  We even took a quick tour of the wax museum where we saw lots of "celebrities" and were able to get our pictures with them.  Too funny!  Although, we actually did see Donald Trump.  He was coming in to the Treasure Island Hotel as we were coming out.  Keith Urban was in Vegas too that weekend and I would have rather seen him, but maybe next time.

All in all, 33 was the best birthday ever!  Thanks Aaron for making me feel like a special princess! 

Hanging out with Will Smith

That's right, He is!

Yep, that's Tim MacGraw

Waiting to hear our names to "Come on Down"  - we're still waiting.

Salt Lake City Marathon (5K)

Call us crazy, but Aaron and I entered and finished our 2nd 5K.  We participated in the Salt Lake City Marathon 5K edition.  We had so much fun running with our friends Debbie and Shelly and Shelly's 2 daughters.  I say running with because we all started at the same time, but that was about the end of "running with" them.  We all had our own pace and finished at different times, but we were all there cheering each other on at the finish line.  It was a great day and a great accomplishment.  Although I still haven't met my goal of running the entire thing, I came a lot closer to it.  I only stopped and walked for 2 minutes and that was after running up a hill.  It was funny because as I was running down the hill I saw a lot of runners running up the same hill and I thought to myself, "Oh, that sucks that the marathon runners have to run up the hill."  Then I turned the corner and realized those "marathoners" were actually the 5K people.  "That sucks!"  But I kept running and made it all the way to the top.  After my short 2 min. walk, I made it back to the Gateway and crossed the finish line in 35 min. 47 secs.  Woohoo!  Here are the results for the race for Aaron and I:
NAME          TIME   PACE   AGE DIV  PLACE OVERALL      

Andrea Marshall 0:35:47 11:31  78/160     800/1574     

Aaron Marshall 0:33:15  10:42   42/66     621/1574   

I am so proud we did it.  Now I'm contemplating signing up for the race for the cure coming up on May 7th.  Who's in?

Freaky Friday

Tonight, Abbi and I were able to go on a "date" together for her Activity Days Mother/Daughter dinner.  The theme was "Freaky Friday" and we were supposed to dress up as each other.  Abbi was so excited about this because that meant that she got to wear fake nails.  As I was contemplating how I was going to dress us up, Aaron informed me that I already dress her like me.  I had to laugh because it is so true.  But, what can I say, she's my only daughter and looks just like me.

This afternoon, Abbi and I spent time getting ready.  I put the fake nails on her and painted her toes.  We went shopping and found me a ponytail extender so I could have long hair and we put on our green shirts so we could match.

At the dinner, they fed us some yummy sweet and sour chicken.  After dinner, we played games and had a nail painting party (hmmm, now they tell us).  One of the games was pretty funny.  It was a mother/daughter version of the Newlywed game.  The leaders asked the girls "What does your mom like to do in her spare time?"  Some of the answers were pretty humorous.  Watch TV, do the dishes, clean the house, and Abbi said, "Color."  Forget shopping, blogging, decorating the house.... Nope, I like to color.  We all got a good laugh.  Overall, it was a great night and I loved spending one-on-one time with Abbi - my little twin!